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‘New’ Research on Womens’ Orgasms Tells Us What You Should Definitely Already Know

Written on 8th November 2016   By   in Uncategorised

In news that will come as no surprise to any woman (or anyone who has ever had sex with a woman), a research paper published in the latest issue of the journal Socioaffective Neuroscience & Psychology finds that women have different kinds of orgasms.

Thank you, science, for the reminder that women experience sex in different ways — and that what turned your last girlfriend on might turn the next one off. The paper also explains that orgasms vary in intensity and frequency, and that they’re affected by how much sexual experience a woman has and the context of the particular sexual encounter. It turns out that hook-up sex is different from sex in a long-term relationship. Who knew? (Oh, right. We all did.)

A team of researchers, from Concordia University in Montreal, Canada, wrote the paper to address some of the biggest questions about female orgasms: “Why do they exist? What do women get out of them? Can all women have them? And the most mysterious of all: What produces them?” They wanted to determine if orgasms are caused by vaginal or clitoral stimulation, and they started out by investigating the history of the female orgasm. They also assessed the results of various orgasm-related studies, including a 2010 study in which “sexually naive female rats” received clitoral stimulation with a “fine paintbrush.” If that last sentence inspires the most bizarre mental image you’ve had all year, you are not alone.

So, what did they uncover in their research? Are orgasms centered in the vagina or the clitoris? Of course, they found out it’s not that simple. As the paper explains, those aren’t the only body parts that play a role in the female orgasm. It can also involve the lips, nipples, ears, and neck, among other things.

According to senior author and psychology professor, Jim Pfaus:

“That combination of sensory input is what reliably induces pleasure and orgasm during masturbation and intercourse. That said, we think it’s likely this changes across the lifespan, as women experience different kinds of orgasms from different types of sensations in different contexts and with different partners.”

So, what’s the main take away here? When you’re having sex with a woman, don’t assume she wants her toes sucked or her nipples tickled. And just because something turned her on the last time you were together, that doesn’t mean she feels the same way this time. Instead of making assumptions, ask her what she wants. There’s no scientific paper in the world that can tell you how to make a woman orgasm — but if you listen, she may tell you herself.

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Erotic story

Written on 23rd September 2016   By   in Uncategorised

I already miss him

The warm rasp of his breath against my lips as we kiss, on my neck as we sleep and on my thighs when he plays.

I miss the overwhelming sensation of his hot skin against mine which is always so cool, the patterns his fingers make down my body, over my curves. All whilst my ankles cross around the back of his hips, welcoming him in between my legs as a smile spreads across both of our faces.

Let me tell you about a night that is giving me goosebumps as I type, imagine, the air is cool, yet everytime is look at him I feel warm, safe, yet exited, comforted yet petrified. I lay on his arm and ask him to tell me naughty things in Spanish, his accent, normally thick and handsome turns into an equally handsome song, his lips move differently to what I’m used to, I’m instantly in the palm of his hand, fascinated by his mouth and a language that I can’t comprehend. Steadily he entwines his fingers up the back of my neck, cupping the back of my head in his hand, kissing me, fast. Speaking in between the flicks of his tounge against mine, filling me with inconsolable lust for him, im in awe at his every little movement.

Pulling on my hair he lifts his hips and places my mouth on the tip of his amazing cock, he tells me, what I could only assume was to kiss it. So placing my mouth on the tip of his cock I let my tonuge explore, circling it, its throbbing, its hard. I lower my mouth to the bottom of his shaft, running my tounge up and over his balls, up to the tip and back down, looking at him, smiling, telling him I was enjoying this just as much as he was. He nods, a smile that I know all too well spreads across his face and he holds my head still, thrusts in to my throat and starts to fuck it. I’d say slowly at first but I would be lying, his cock was instantly filling my mouth, my throat, my tongue was pressing on to the under side of his shaft and it was clear that the same lust that has taken over all my senses had worked it’s wicked ways on him also.

Now, with both his fists stuffed with my hair he makes me gag on him, over and over. My eyes are watering but it is incredible to feel him so far down my throat I don’t want him to stop. Then he decides that enough is enough, pushes my shoulder against the harsh cold of the mattress and places himself between my legs and without warning slides himself inside me, in less than 30 seconds he is fucking me hard, his mouth all over me, anywhere he can reach, whispering that I am his, asking me to tell me who I belong to. His ownership of me evident in the way that I would let him have me in anyway he wanted my desire for him too much to hide and my constant need for him to have his hands on my body simply overpowering.

My eyes roll in to the back of my head as I’m totally lost in the movement of his hips, drugged on how hes fucking me, totally numb to anything but the feeling of his cock slamming in to my tiny hole over and over, then my eyes snap open as his finger finds its way around the back of me and starts to tease my ass, still fucking me he eases his finger inside of me now fucking both my holes at once, I haven’t felt anything as amazing and lift my hips to let his slide in deeper to anywhere he desired, I could feel an overwhelming sensation, my body paralysed by him as I tightened and came over his incredible cock.

Looking at me in the eyes and telling me firmly that he wasn’t finished he spread my legs again and pumped in to me until he brought himself to orgasm, filling me with his load, feeling it hit deep inside me, hot and hard, he pulls out and watches as his cum drips out of his girl, covering her ass and her thighs. csiysgiwcaadajw ctlcedcukaajzjl

 

A Handy List of Sexual Dos and Do Nots.

Written on 15th September 2016   By   in Uncategorised

Every week, there are plenty of stories of people doing stuff no one should ever think of trying. We’d thought we’d provide a few handy sexual yays and nays, based on some this week’s headlines.

Do: Take an interest in your partner’s anatomy.

Don’t: Take such a paranoid interest that you demand to check your partner’s vagina to see if she still has her hymen.

No dude should ever ask to see a woman’s hymen. Simple as that.

Do: Have fun with a camera once in awhile and film your sex life.

Don’t: Use a camera to illegally film the sex lives of your Airbnb guests.

It’s not cool to film strangers having sex. It’s really not cool to set up hidden cameras in your house to film your Airbnb guests having sex. That’s jail time, bro.

Do: Recognize that some people are bisexual.

Don’t: Recognize that some people are bisexual and then grow terrified at the idea of dating a bisexual.

Recently, 47% of survey respondents reported they’d be scared to date a bisexual. Look, bisexuals aren’t risky lovers. They aren’t more diseased or more likely to cheat on you. They’re just like they’re kettle corn: salty and sweet, the best of both worlds.

Do: Remember not everyone knows their own body.

Don’t: Make fun of them for not knowing their own body.

When asked to point one out, 44% of British women struggled to locate a vagina or cervix on an anatomy chart. Of course, it would be super easy to make a few jokes about how British women don’t know a vagina from a hole in the ground, but we won’t do that, because the point is, a lot of people don’t know about their body. Laughing at them won’t help. If you do laugh, they’re far less likely to have sex with you.c_limitq_80w_720-http-images-origin-playboy-com-ogz4nxetbde6-1vffehlr6uoouwu4oiu0k-d94b1e3f39b4034e5e44e044a71f73df-39_msnd-mansion

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